Sister drama. 1 more time.

sarack

So guess what she wrote on my facebook this morning?"So I'm not even in the wedding? Whats up with that?"I deleted it. I just had this conversation with her like a week ago. I'm doing what makes me happy. I don't want drama. What do I do?

cupcakepirate

You've made your point clear to her, have you not? I don't tihnk you need to do anything at this point, she knows, she is in denial/doesn't want to accept it. The only thing you could do is re-emphasize. But it seems as though your efforts are just going to be continued to be wasted. Good luck with it.

sarack

I feel like I've made my point. I deleted the comment because I didn't know what to say to her. I don't want to argue about it. I am doing what makes me happy and this is unnecessary. We aren't close. I just feel like she'll keep asking until we have a huge blowout that then allows her to not show up.. which, whatever. I'm over the drama.

karebear219

Insert eye roll here. Urgh sorry you have to deal with that.If it makes you feel any better. My evil FSIL is in town this week. I walked in the house and said hi. She was laying on the couch, just kinda threw up her hand to somewhat acknowlege me. Nice to see nothing has changed. I guess at least she is silent about her hatred.

sarack

karebear- I deal with that when I see FMIL & FSIL. I think they are just jealous. :0) Thats my story and I'm stickin to it. It makes me feel better.

jeannigirl

Sara: You already told her I think that once is enough. Just ignore it and go on with your wedding planning and such. Keep your smile you will be marrying your honey soon!

dbraulik

Uggh. Sorry you have to deal with that. Especially after you just had the talk. I would have deleted it too.Would it even be worth the effort to send her a FB message saying you decided that you needed people who were geographically and emotionally close to you to be in your wedding?  Double uggh.

sarack

db, i like the idea of the geographically and emotionally close thing. that is wonderful!

LauraLynneC

I ended up removing ALL my family from FB while wedding planning.  I liked it so much I'm keeping it that way.  People are so much more bold there than face to face that it makes it awkward for people with who you have a close relationship (and are "required" to have a relationship with).  Good luck.  She sounds insane.

dmw_2010

I would have done the same thing. At this point, since you've talked to her about it, I think a strategy of not engaging her in the conversation is the best way to go. Especially if you know she's most likely looking for a fight.