African American Weddings

The Latest WR Drama... LONG

So as yall know the Bms dont have their shoes well I saw some Paris Hilton shoes in Marshalls for  $50. They werent my favorite I really liked the 35 shoes I picked long ago. (Here's the shoe http://www.shoes.com/Shopping/ProductDetails.aspx?p=EC1121864&pg=5079113)  Anyway. I sent out  a msg saturday when I seen them. Only 2 out of the 4 bms replied. So I sent the msg again yesterday. FSIL(the trick thats always complaining) " Bad enough the dress has a bow on now the shoe has to have one too. There not cute." I was like ok thats it. So I replied, "They are cute. Whateva. Im official through looking and asking yall about the shoes. Get some black peep toe shoes and it'll be fine."

Yall I was on fire. I stayed on fire all through the night. I woke up on fire, and decided to send a mass text to all 4 BMS. I basically told them that they act like Im asking for alot from them. Which Im not. I told them that FSIL didnt like the shoes and BM S didnt even respond about the shoes. (Yes Yall I was calling they asses out.) I told them that by Sept 5 everyone needs to have a  black peep toe shoe and their dresses need to be altered.

So of course FSIL didnt respond yet shes at work. So I know she probably at work cursing my butt out and I really Dont Care.

BM S. She responded she kinda had an attitude but I dont GAF anyway. She said that it was only August 12 and her MIL couldnt get to the dress til the end of the month, so it wasnt a reason to take it to her now. And she didnt feel like she needed to respond about the shoes because its my wedding and it whateva shoe I picked is fine. Yall she really tried to do me. Which meant I had to lay some knowledge on her butt.

I told her that I knew what todays date was, and being that she just got married in May she should know that time flys. I also told her I understand that his mom is doing her alterations but she has yet to get or try on the dress since I got her a bigger size. And If i sent a msg about the shoes that meant I needed a response. I also told her I have been sending her msg and calling she hasnt responded. I said anyway I'll see you on the 5th or before to see your shoes and dress. Thanks.

Now seriously Im through asking them about shoes. I am really really serious this time. I put it out there how I felt and gave them a timeline now they can deal with it.

Ok Im thru.. LOL...

Re: The Latest WR Drama... LONG

  • edited December 2011
    You are only one month away.  The time is now for them to get their stuff.  They are acting so childish.  Dang why cant people just be there for the bride.  Its only a few months that you ask them to do this stuff and they act like they cant take the time for you.  I am so sorry to hear this. 
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  • prncszprncsz member
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    edited December 2011

    Sorry to hear this as well. If they don't have those dresses and shoes though I wouldn't let them walk down that aisle. Why must people do that wait to the last minute? I'm sure they have known for some time your date, etc. Why hadn't they got their stuff together even if you had to do pieces at a time pay for the dress first then a few months later get the shoes. Just ridiculous!! Now that you saying this it has me wanting to push my date up a little more for picking out dresses and placing deposits!

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  • cincy2011cincy2011 member
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    edited December 2011
    Your BMs are being extremely inconsiderate.  I'm sorry you have to deal with this!  I'm glad you let them know how you feel though - you always seemed like the type to not hold your tongue.  LOL!!!  Good luck girl, I hope they get their acts together! 
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  • lturner3580lturner3580 member
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    edited December 2011
    It will all work out. Just try to calm down. One of my BMs was out looking for shoes the morning of my wedding. Don't sweat the small stuff! I'm sure you have a million other things to be worried about this close to the wedding. Relax and take it easy is the best advice that I can give.
  • edited December 2011
    so this explains the FB status from yesterday (again you know I'm laughing at you cuz I sooooooooo envisioned your butt getting up in the middle of the night mad as hell @ your BM)...now that it's all out there (like it wasn't before) they should know what is expected of them, so come 9/5 if they don't have their dresses/shoes -- it will be a wrap for them cuz you have truly been very patient with them and tried to get them to purchase those fab $35 shoes initially but as usually WE wait til the last minute now they gotta go buy some $50 shoes (which BTW I love and think are just as cute as the 1st ones but I love the price of the 1st ones better...LOL!).

    I just think FSIL is just TRYING to be extra difficult as for the BM "S" - ok chica just got married in May so she of all people should understand why you have been stressing them to get their ish together...that's a dang-gone shame!

    Apparently they want you to put Kadyn on their butts, she'll get them straight with the quickness...LOL!  Laughing 
  • edited December 2011
    You always make me smile Alf!! LMAO!!

    Thanks Ladies!!
  • edited December 2011
    Alf said it sooooo well!  LMAO!!  FSIL is trying to be real extra with her nonsense and BM "S" is trying to extend her Bridezilla moment...I would have told them off too!
  • edited December 2011
    Thanks Rhoyal. Girl these tricks about to make me go crazy!!
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