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Feeling some kinda way....

sooooo i'm short 1 more guest on my guest list ( not that i'm upset about it...the rsvps where more than we expected) but this guest happens to be one of my friends whom i recently became very close to......basically she told me she cant come to my wedding b/c her and her bf ( who is a marine stationed in Ca) are going to vegas getting married the same day I'M getting married.......now i'm estatic that she's getting married....her and her bf just started dating last year and are really good for each other but i feel some kinda way because 1.I was gonna do a vegas wedding but changed my mind b/c FI wanted all our friends and family to be able to come when i was kicking around the vegas idea she was like nah i wouldnt personally do it b/c im not 21(she's the baby of the bunch 21 in sept.) and i cant gamble and it would be no fun for me. and 2. she picked MY day... which she has known about for the last 4 months now......like i said i'm happy they are getting married i'm just a little put off that its on my day and in my pseudo destination spot and mostly b/c  i wont be there to see her get married....hell its just him and her no family ......they are planning a big "to-do " wedding for october her in atl........
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Re: Feeling some kinda way....

  • FabbiegirlFabbiegirl member
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    edited December 2011
      I can understand that weird type of feeling.  It's hard not to take that a little personally.  I would just continue to be happy for her.

    I wish I could give a possible good reason for what she did, but like my cousin has reminded me, people, women in particular, change when it comes to weddings. 


  • edited December 2011
    I understand that it makes you go, "really?". But I would just say oh well & keep it moving. Congratulate her on her day & just focus on your wedding.
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