Hello everyone,
My MOH has been my BFF since we were 15. We're extremely close, always have been. She is married, has been for about 4yrs now. I've been engaged since March of this year. We haven't talked as much as we used to, she's in school...I just had a baby. Our schedules conflict. So, when we do talk, of course its about the wedding.
I 've noticed that every time we talk, she asks 'so how does it feel to be engaged?' I can understand maybe right after the engagement, but really....3 months later, you're still asking? Is she hoping that the answer is different? I don't know.
My fiance is involved with the wedding. He helped with picking out colors, looking at invites etc...I told her the colors (raspberry and silver)....why did you choose those colors and I thought you always wanted purple and blah blah blah. I said WE decided to change the colors. Well, I know since we were little, purple was always your favorite color and why all of sudden, you're changing them...I'm like for real? Its not that deep, so I don't understand the hostility.
As a joke, I texted her and my finance a picture of a ring that costs like $20,000 and I told my finance to 'make it happen', lol....She gets her panties in a bunch and calls me and says, 'why do you want another ring'. I said, my fiance wants to get me another ring when we get married and that the ring he gave me, is just an engagement ring, I will be getting another one when we get married. She goes on to give a history lesson about engagement rings and suggested that I keep the one that gave me. I said, if he wants to get me a bigger and better ring, I will let him! WTF is the big deal?
I asked when she was available to go with me to look at dresses, she never responded. So, I don't know what her deal is, but she is starting to piss me off. How should I handle her from now on? Should I continue to have her as my MOH?
