African American Weddings

if I could change one thing......

i would not have a wp!!!! the guys have been wonderful, but omg the girls are a handfull to deal with. i love them all dearly, but only one of the 4 have been truly cooperative and she is the moh. all the others have said some type of remark or done something in a negative way. i sometimes regret having bm's. what would u change if you could xhange anything?

Re: if I could change one thing......

  • edited December 2011

    Sorry your having to go thru that. That's exactly why Im not having a BP just my boys and FI thats I all I need. Less negativity I have to deal with the better. Hope it gets better.

  • edited December 2011
    I would have convinced FI to get married in my hometown.  The DW was his idea.  I love the wedding I have planned, but none of his friends are coming and it is bumming him out.  If we were getting married back east, all of his "friends" would be there.  The guest list would have been bigger, but he would have been happier I think.
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  • wallacjewallacje member
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    edited December 2011
    No wedding party as well and uninvite all the people that don't know how to send an RSVP card back.  Could've got a smaller/cheaper venue if the idiots that haven't responded yet weren't even invited in the first place.
  • sadou02sadou02 member
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    edited December 2011
    Had a some wedding like I initially wanted. I wanted a backyard ceremony sooo much but my parents wanted a formal ceremony.
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  • edited December 2011
    I would have had a small ceremony on the beach with no wp and just our immediate family. That way I could have saved some of my money and put it toward our new house savings :)
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  • edited December 2011
    flew to Vegas!
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