Bachelorette Party

Elizabeth80

My BP is planning my Bachelorette Party and someone outside of the bridal party texted them to ask that they change the date so she can come...um really?! Mind you this girl did my e-pics and I had to hunt her down to get copies of those. So no we are not changing the date. So I have two questions....

*When is your Bachelor Party?

*Who all are you inviting? (Bridal Party only, select gf's, or anyone is welcome)

*If you know what you're doing share your plans?! Or share what you hope you're doing for it.

Elizabeth80

*Mine is May 26th

*Currently I'm only inviting my girls in the bridal party and the spouses of the groomsmen(we're really close).

*Not sure what the plans are but I know we'll be dressing up and going dancing but that's all I was able to find out.

hmacsine

My moh was talking about a weekend at atlantic city nj but we I don't have a set date. Only my bp is invited.

rowenac82

I don't have bachelorette party plans yet. Well actually I might and just don't know of them since it's a "top secret" mission among my BMs but I was just curious...I am guessing the change of date worked for everyone else? Everyone is special huh? LOL

I do know that my BP will be sometime within the week before my wedding since it will be in Arizona and that's when I plan on being there. Most of my guests are OOT but the majority of my BMs live in Arizona. So if the BP is planned close enough to the wedding that OOT guests could attend then family members closer to my age and close gfs will be invited. If it's more like a week before the wedding it will prob be just gfs in AZ and BMs. 

Elizabeth80

Lol exactly! And this gf is cool but I know she would be the type where they changed it for her and then she wouldn't be able to make it after all.

Rowena, did you go to college in Arizona? How did you end up having your wedding down that way? (Don't ask me why I never thought to ask this before now lol)

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[QUOTE]I don't have bachelorette party plans yet. Well actually I might and just don't know of them since it's a "top secret" mission among my BMs but I was just curious...<strong>I am guessing the change of date worked for everyone else? Everyone is special huh? LOL</strong> I do know that my BP will be sometime within the week before my wedding since it will be in Arizona and that's when I plan on being there. Most of my guests are OOT but the majority of my BMs live in Arizona. So if the BP is planned close enough to the wedding that OOT guests could attend then family members closer to my age and close gfs will be invited. If it's more like a week before the wedding it will prob be just gfs in AZ and BMs. 
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rowenac82

You are right on point! I did go to college in Arizona but actually my immediate family lives there as well. I came out to St. Louis for work:-) It will two years this October since I have been here. 

Elizabeth80

Oh gotcha! Didn't mean to thread jack I was just curious:-)

missowens

My bachelorette party/weekend is coming up soon in April!  Woo-hoo!  So far it will be my bms and maybe 2 other friends and we will be going to hang out in Atlanta.  My sister/moh has been planning a lot of it and didn't want me to know about it, but one of my bm's inadvertently told me. Arrive Thurs. and leave Sun., during this time we will go to a nice night club & strip club, go to a gun range (something I've always wanted to do ), head to the spa, take pole dancing lessons, and enjoy dinner at a nice restaurant.  So far that's all I know   And I think we might have a limo the night we go to the clubs.  I can't wait!!

egammo3

Mine I think will be the day before the wedding. As far as I know it will be just the BP. I believe they are getting a VIP section in a local club.

Ksk2012

Mine is the day before the wedding. Two of my closest friends are coming in from out of town a few days right before the wedding so we will probably go our Friday night before the wedding. I told them dinner and maybe some type of lounge. No club. I also told them that I want to be back to my hotel by midnight! I also decided if I wanted to drink it needed to be before dinner.  So it is not really a bachelorette party but more of a girls night out. At first I wanted to a big PARTY type club hop, but then i opted for something low key.

kikilay17

mine is next weekend im so excited all i know is were going to vegas and were staying at the venetian thats all they will tell me 

Elizabeth80

Nice!!

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[QUOTE]mine is next weekend im so excited all i know is were going to vegas and were <strong>staying at the venetian</strong> thats all they will tell me 
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madimyluv

My bachelorette Party is the end of July.  My bridal party and I are going to Las Vegas for the wknd.  Then my bridal shower for all the women that was invited to the wedding will be given by my sister and mother and that will be early August.

EBONYROBERT

My party is in 2 weeks and i invited close friends to the pole dancing party then later that night i invited all other friends out to a lounge for some music and drinks.

melntaitt

Bach-party is May 25th to 26th.

Only my MOH and four select girlfriends are coming. The other two girls in the WP are 6 and 10 so no grown up clubs for them

We're going to Lava at Turning Stone Resort & Casino outside Syracuse (http://www.turningstone.com/lava/index.php); first, we're having dinner at the Peach Blossom, gambling away some money, then partying it up at the club. The next morning we're sleeping in and then we have an afternoon spa schedule to get some of the nasty toxins out of our systems from the night before lol. Afterward, lunch then heading our separate ways.