I am seriously stressing out trying to settle the date for our wedding. I've been working on it for THREE WEEKS NOW. Maybe someone here can help?
Here's the situation: the venue we want is an indoor / outdoor, which would be ideal in September. It's only available Fridays in Sept. 2010, so I just recently made arrangements to book it and lay out a deposit. The DAY I'M GOING TO MAKE THE DEPOSIT my Mom tells me she wants me to postpone it until next year b/c she doesn't want to charge anything on her cards and wants to pay cash for everything, which means she and my stepdad need more time to generate funds. Understandable. But this would mean we wouldn't be able to have the event for another 18 months (so that it could happen in September, the most reliably sunny month up here), even after all the weeks of planning we started.
Meanwhile, Dad is pushing to have it THIS year, which would mean that I'd have to scale back everything to meet a smaller budget. Not a big deal, except my mother had also volunteered to do all the dresses, and I'm scared she won't be willing to given the short amount of time we'd be going back to.
So the question is, 6-month engagement with a smaller budget and no guarantee on dresses and a pissed off Mom and Stepdad, or an 18-month engagement with a bigger budget but a pissed off Dad and one burnt out, impatient, disappointed bride?