Step Mothers

thedivav

I am running things through my head and what do you do with stepmothers? 

My dad's widdow *is my stepmother i guess she is 9 years older than me more like step big sister* because my dad is no long here i want to make her feel apart but i do not want to take away from my mom *if that makes any sense* 

Does she wear one of the wedding colors? my colors are eggplant, silver and peony

whats the scoop on stepmothers 

i want my mom to wear eggplant 

can i ask her to wear silver or peony....

mind you our wedding will be interesting FI mom has passed not close with his dad

my dad has passed stepmother and mom i am close but not that close to 

TIA

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M1ssJ

I would ask her to war the colors, get her a corsage , if you're doing that, and include her in family pics

RealHappyGal

I dont think Id ask her to wear the colors, but if family is processing, I'd allow her to process and get her a corsage. 

keyaira04

Agree with PP since she is like a big sister. 

If my stepmother attends, which I heard thru the grapevine she won't even tho I personally invited her, I'll get her corsage, but nothing more. 

thedivav

Thanks for the ideas