Dang GINA! (Martin) lol. I have really never gotten along with them. They refuse to come to my house since I am here. They have not been to this house in 3 years. They treat my kids differently then they treat the other grandkids. As for my daughter from a previous relationship, they totally treat her wrong. They avoid me at all costs. They do not speak to me if we are in the same place. I basically do not exist to them. This is a step up from when they blatantly did not invite me to any family functions and my hubby had to divide mother's day and Christmas between me and them. This is a step up from when they would hang up the phone if I answered when they called. They still will call and ask to speak to the kids that he and I have together but not speak to my daughter.
I am happy that now his siblings are accepting me somewhat, but his parents still hate me. It really hurts. Don't get me wrong, I did things that made them not like me, but in my defense it was over 4 years ago. We have been together for 6 years! I would think by now that we would be able to have conversations with each other. I would think that by now I would get introduced to my in laws friends instead me having to introduce myself and then they look at me like an alien.
the worst thing is that he is afraid to tell them that we are having a wedding. Really.. And he is trippin because he is scared that they will not help pay like they paid for his sibling's weddings. Uh duh, they hate me why would they... I am so nervous. I just want to be accepted and forgiven. I was 20 years old when I messed up and I am about to be 27. This is ridiculous. How do you guys get along with your in laws? If you have had hurdles, how have you gotten past them?