I came back from FI's cousin's wedding in Long Island. And it was soooooo not formal! FI fit in fine with khakis and a dark button up shirt.
Here is a photo of a group of the Bride's friends:

Note: the bald guy and the guy in the middle wore JEANS! And the guy on the far right wore white shorts.
I think this wedding was a rarity, because there were a LOT of people with artistic backgrounds (dancing, singing, even 1 person in Lion King on Broadway!).
I had a fantastic time at the winery wedding. The food was super tasty (TONS of hor dourves and great buffet), they had a great beer selection (which I was worried about since I don't drink wine and the wedding was at a winery), and the cake was perfect (moist and not too sweet)! Colors were black and white, and the flowers were red roses and sunflowers (the only colors I saw at the wedding). And the dancing at the reception was craaa-zay, but I attribute that to all the trained dancers in attendance.
OMH est. May 7, 2011

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