So, I am one of those gender wandering lesbinems, and I have had a hard time finding something to wear. My partner immediately opted for a suit, and I just felt like i would be a butchly rock standing up there. a wedding dress, well the idea just made me feel icky all around. So i decided to look in between, but what the hell is that?
First i found a beautiful simple dress at All Saints Spitafield, it was black, and different enough to look pretty bad ass, with a full sleeve of tatoos. But the tatoos had to be scrapped due to a new medicine, and so the dress became, just a dress.
I went back to shopping. Hippie wraps, skimpy dresses, and saris later, I finally feel decided :
I am going to wear a vest. but let me stop there! I recently saw a picture of a lesbian wedding with one wearing a vest, and frankly it looked like a bohemian braless, robbed, lesbian. BLAH.
I found several different unusual cuts of vests, either shaped with racer backs, or deep v necks at deisel and saks. The latest find- at Doo.ri, the banker vest, it has a totally unique back made of drapes. This vest, with some tailoring would be perfect with a pair for nice pants, or even capris (summer time). It adds a formality to a simpler bottom.
so that is my journey. I hope this will be helpful to someone out there who is in the same genderfuck i am. good luck!