Our ceremony and reception will be the first time any of our friends and family will witness any PDA (Public Display of Affection). Why you ask? Well, although they have known about our relationship, we have not openly displayed our affection in front of others. The reason being because for years we kept our our relationship from employers, co-workersor , some family and friends out of fear of rejection and being judged. So, after years of just holding back any display of affection in front of others, it's hard to just flip a switch and be okay with it. When trying to select a song for our first dance and trying to practice dancing to it, it turned out to be a very sad and ackward moment. I don't know if we will be able to overcome the ackwardness. Not because we don't love one another but, because we have only on one or two occasions slowed danced together...let alone in front of a hundred people. Any suggestions or advice? I'm steering away from a cookie-cutter wedding/celebration in some areas. So any feedback would be greatly appreciated.