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Well, then I'll add mine

I had a horrible sMom as a child. She was a child abusing gold digging bitch. I hated her, even then.

And here's one reason why: I was at my Dad's one weekend (please recall that my Dad spent his time working or hunting on weekends when I was there) and my brothers begged sMom to take them to the lake. Well she couldn't leave me so she had to take me with her (I might have been 5 or so)

Well at some point I had to poop. I asked her if she could take me to a bathroom, and she refused, and suggested perhaps I wander down the beach and find one. I know now that there wasn't a public facility because the lake was mostly privately owned. I begged her to help me and she refused and ignored me. Well, I used the bathroom anyway, in my bathing suit, tears streaming down my eyes, embarrassed and ashamed.

She then pointed it out to my brothers, her daughter & son, and they all (including her) started teasing me mercilessly except her son. It was horrible On the way home she made me ride on the floor of the van with my legs under me so I wouldn't mess anything up, and still my brothers and step sibling teased me.

My sbrother, who was almost quite literally the whipping boy just held my hand, but it didn't help.

To this day I get teary eyed thinking about it. My brother brought it up once in a joking sort of way and H shut him down hard.
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Re: Well, then I'll add mine

  • AuntFloAuntFlo member
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    edited December 2011
    That's so sad and awful that anyone would treat a child like that.    I hope she rots in hell.
  • loveshine1loveshine1 member
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    edited December 2011
    Wow. What an awful person. I'm sorry you had to deal with that.
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  • Butter CookieButter Cookie member
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    edited December 2011
    AF her daughter is a stripper and I think her parents finally cut her off after she ran through the 4th or 5th husband. I don't remember them but apparently they groomed her to marry rich. I have no idea where she got the idea my Dad had money.

    After that I stayed with my grandmother on weekends. I have wonderful memories of me and her peeling oranges and watching jeopardy and wheel of fortune. She was a wonderful lady. <3
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  • edited December 2011
    I'm glad you had a place to go and get away from this horrid woman. If I were your dad I would have spend my weekend working or hunting to get away from her, too.
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  • **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    edited December 2011
    Seriously this makes me raging mad, BC.  If you give me her address, I will send her something tres *special*.
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  • Butter CookieButter Cookie member
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    edited December 2011
    HEE @ Oface!

    Min he was thinking with his penis when he married her. After my grandmother died he finally confronted her about the affairs she had been having, she robbed him blind, and left.

    I'm okay now, I'm a big girl, and have the ability to find myself a bathroom. It'll probably never be "funny" to me but at least I know I'm not like her, and would never ever do that to a child.

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  • zsazsa-stlzsazsa-stl member
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    edited December 2011
    How horrible!! 

    ::hugs BC::

    I'm sorry you had to spend time with such a heartless beast.
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  • mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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    edited December 2011
    That's so so sad.  I'm sorry that happened to you.

    What an evil bitch.
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