I was set to be married on August 29, 2009... Was to be the happiest day of my life.... Then 1 Week before I had a ruptured appendix and spent 9 days including my wedding day in the hospital... I am so very depressed I missed my wedding day as it was a gorgeous day with perfect weather. Now I don't know what to do... Rescheduling is posing a problem as my recovery time is 4-6 weeks which brings us into the dreary fall and winter months of November, december... My father has been battling cancer for the last 5 years and we don't know how long he has left. my fiance father just went in for emergency surgery 2 weeks before the wedding for a triple bypass. Both our fathers are on the edge, where everyday is a blessing that they are still here... We can't wait till next summer for fear of losing our loved ones before the wedding, but getting married in such a dreary month as november is not really what I had imagined... I am so very depressed and feel like if I do reschedule the wedding, something else bad is going to happen and kill that one too... I almost can't find it in me to reschedule and stick to a new date.. What can I do to releive the stress that my wedding day is not going to happen or if it does happen, that day is going to be dreary and cold, and nothing as it was supposed to be.I need some advice please, I have been waiting for my perfect wedding day for 14 years, and now it seems it will be anything but perfect... Even my fiance is saying he is not excited about our wedding either, We are both scared its not going to be what we imagined it to be. Advice please... Depressed in Minnesota