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WHAT?!?!!?!?!?!?

Because it's crazy and then I laughed. Ok...I've been a fan of thiswebsite for a few months now but I just signed up today! Truth is I've read some really great advice on here and I'm needing some of my own. Ok here it goes! My ff and I have been together for almost four years. He is AMAZING:) He is kind, compassionate, loving, handsome:), hilarious, and the list goes on and on. The only problem is my mom HATES him. And I don't mean she dislikes him...she really hates him. I'm an only "child" (I'm 25) and my mom has been divorced since I was little. She has never remarried and hasn't dated in I don't know how long. Her social life is non existent and she never hangs out with friends. With that said for the longest time it was just me and my mom. Well when ff came around things changed. He is not allowed at her house, we have never spent holidays with her and anytime his name is mentioned I get an earful. He and I have been living together for two years now and he recently bought a ring:) I'm soooo excited and I have no idea when he will propose (I'm about to burst with excitement!). But....what is supposed to be an exciting time in my life is being rained on by my mom. I haven't told her about the ring yet but I know as soon as I do she will explode. She has no reason to dislike him and anytime I ask her what her problem is with him she never gives me a direct answer. She has said on numerous occasions that if I marry him that I will be dead to her (she literally said she would put a headstone in her yard with my name on it). She has also said that if we have children that she will not have anything to do with them. I know I'm an adult and it's my life...I just wish I wouldn't have to deal with this. I don't know what to do and it's really driving me crazy. I don't want to ruin the relationship with my mom but I WILL NOT give up the wonderful life I have with my ff....Please help me ladies!
"I would be sad if sex was only about the climax, lame." Someone who is obviously doing it wrong
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Re: WHAT?!?!!?!?!?!?

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    hmonkeyhmonkey member
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    edited December 2011
    mom sounds awesome.  call me, mom!
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    **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    edited December 2011
    I almost stopped reading at ff.  Why not just say bf?
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    *Barbie**Barbie* member
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    edited December 2011
    that yellow smiley looks like it's jerking off.
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    edited December 2011
    One poster told her to go ahead and buy her mom the headstone now.
    "I would be sad if sex was only about the climax, lame." Someone who is obviously doing it wrong
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    L_WoodsL_Woods member
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    edited December 2011
    Mommy dearest needs a ho sit down card.
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    LnR70707LnR70707 member
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    edited December 2011
    ::snort::this sounds like an episode of hitched or ditched.
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