I think I'm slowly coming to realize this.There are a few friends that I've had since early college. Two of them were roommates with me for at least a year.Roommate #1 and I were bffs and she's a lesbian. She's basically disappeared from this earth, mostly I believe, because I'm NOT a lesbian, so whatever.Roommate #2 is a friend, but she's a mememe person and didn't ask how I was at all this weekend. She's very condescending and always on her high horse about SOMETHING.So yes, they're (were-whatever) friends, but I don't NEED them. I have other people. So I'm not settling for that disappearing act and condescending c-U-Next-Tuesday of a "friend".