My cw came into my office maybe two weeks ago asking where we got my e-ring. So I showed him the website and we started looking at rings. He came back a couple of days later to look some more. So the other day, I ask him how the ring shopping is going. He says, "Well, ya know, I want to do it and everything, but let me ask you a question: so I buy the ring, pay for the wedding, and then have to pay for everything for her for the rest of our lives?" I said, "Yeah, sweet deal, right?" thinking he was kidding.He goes on to tell me the GF has no savings, $1500 in cc debt, and despite this is planning a trip to Costa Rica to visit a friend (in other words, things I have no business knowing). I told him if that's how he feels about it whyTF is he even thinking about getting engaged and maybe he should, oh I don't know, TALK TO HIS GF ABOUT IT! What a damn moron. I know he is only doing it because he's about to be 31 and thinks it's time and is what he "should" do...and you know that is a great foundation for a marriage!