Maybe I'm just nervous or just not into the huge wedding but I feel like my wedding is turning into a monster. I'm a very laid back (normally) woman that is oh-so in love with my fiance. Also, this is both our second marriage (I already did a big wedding, he got married at the court house). All I really care about is getting our marriage started. My fiance and I talked about a small intimate ceremony. Now Groomzilla is loose and this thing has gotten out of hand. Really at this point I want to elope and have nothing to do with the big wedding. This is really not anything that I wanted. I feel like I'm just showing up with my dress and even that (casual dress) is being criticized as not dressy enough. I really don't know how I'm suppose to enjoy this but don't feel like a have alot of say especially since his family has decided to foot the bill. I feel like the only bride that doesn't care about her wedding.