Wedding Woes

Bachelor party..

My FI's best man decided that he is not going to listen to either me or my fiance and wants to throw a bachelor party that has strippers. I HATE this idea. Both me and my FI agreed that neither of us will have strippers at our parties, but his BM wont listen! He said that its not a bachelor party unless he sees boobs. Ugh! Any advice???

Re: Bachelor party..

  • Your FI can always decline the party if he doesn't want to be around strippers. i didn't want to do the strip club thing, but then after we were already out, a bunch of my girls wanted to go to a stripper show and i felt like a wet noodle if i didn't say okay. i did not have fun.

    just curious, you both don't trust each other around strippers?
  • tawillerstawillers member
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    edited February 2012
    Just flash them all as they leave for the night.

    ETA:  But really, if he doesn't want that party, he needs to step up and say so.  If the BM has a problem with it, he can go to a strip club alone while your FI and the others do something else.
  • Yeah, I'm in the "no one has a gun to your FI's head" camp.  If he doesn't want to go to a stripper party, then he doesn't have to go.  And he should tell the best man that he's an ass and a half for making FI's bachelor party all about what BM wants.
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