Dear Amy: My fiance and I are planning our wedding and are putting together our invitation list. We both have family friends from our hometowns with whom we'd like to celebrate.
One of these families has a son who had seriously offended one of our close friends. We were all together one night, and once it got late and people left, he made advances toward her. He climbed into bed with her, grabbed her and, after several requests by her to stop, he finally retreated.
He might have been drinking, and no one knows if he remembers this event as hurtful or significant because no one has talked to him about it.
This happened two years ago, and our close friend is still hurt and avoids him at all costs.
Now the problem is, we'd like him to be at our wedding but don't want to offend either of them. What to do?
— Deliberating Bride