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Anxiety...ugh

Ok, just need to vent a little...

I'm sick of talking to my family about this.  My Grandma, who is also my last living grandparent, has suddenly taken a turn for the worse.  She was diagnosed with Alzheimer's only about 3 months ago, and they expect that she won't make it through the weekend.  I just can't believe this...A few months back, in September I believe, we moved her from her apartment to a nursing home.  We also moved all of her stuff into a storage unit.  Someone actually burned down the whole complex 2 weeks ago.  A few days later, the hospice nurse told us that my grandma wouldn't make it to see our wedding.  A few days ago the Hospice nurse said that she only had a few more weeks, and just yesterday they said she wouldn't make it through the weekend.

Right now, I'm dreading answering my phone, I honestly just want to stay at work,  or school and not deal with this.  I know that isn't the right thing to do, but that is just what I feel right now.  My Grandma lives about 3 hours away from here so I can't get up to see her until tomorrow at the earliest.  In the back of my mind, I'm just bummed knowing that she won't be at my wedding, but ultimately I am in a way happy that she won't be in this comatose state that she is in.

I'm also frustrated because one of my BM hasn't gone to get her BM dress yet.  I just feel like I have so much going on right now and I don't want to deal with any of it!  I have been on her for a month to get her dress and she always tells me she will get it next week.  Now I can't get her to return my E-mail's, texts. calls, FB messages, anything.  She doesn't live close by either, so I can't just show up at her house or anything.  UGH!  OK, thank  you for letting me vent! 

I'm just really bummed about my grandma :(

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Re: Anxiety...ugh

  • ReturnOfKuusReturnOfKuus member
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    edited December 2011
    I love the bridesmaid dress thing thrown in there.  I truly am sorry about your grandmother, though.
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  • edited December 2011
    I am sorry about your grandmother. Forget the BM - either she gets the dress or she doesn't. In the end, it won't matter.
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  • Butter CookieButter Cookie member
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    edited December 2011
    Sorry about your grandmother. My bff's grandma just passed after a 7 year struggle with alzheimers, and I wouldn't wish that kind of anguish on anybody.
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