I hate drama, I run from it when I see it coming, except this time it's my wedding and I'm stuck in the middle and I hate it! FI's BM has been in our lives for the duration of our relationship (6 yrs) plus he's known FI since gradeschool. I'm frustrated b/c a couple that is in our bridal party shuns every opportunity they get to meet BM and his gf (who is going to be his FI very soon.)
I'm mostly frustrated b/c BM is reaching out and inviting them (not prompted by FI or me in any way) and he keeps getting denied, for no reason.
FI and I were both in this couple's wedding and we got to know the rest of the wedding party and even invited them for bbq's and stuff. Why is it so hard to return the favor? In all fairness to the couple, the BM half of the couple is willing to go, but it's her husband who drags his feet, and with them it's an all or nothing package.
Any way I guess it comes down to the fact that I don't want to have to choose between my friends, and I don't want FI to have to choose either. This whole thing is making me loose sleep and feel grumpy! (Sorry this was so long.)