Dear Amy: I've been seeing a man for more than three months.
Two weeks ago we began a sexual relationship. I wanted to make it known that I don't do "open" relationships. He just told me that a woman has asked him to meet up for coffee. He said it was no big deal — just coffee.
I'm inclined to end our sexual relationship until he knows what he really wants. In my mind, I'm not the answer for him or he wouldn't be making time for coffee dates with another woman. I'm not saying I want to end our association, but I feel I should put the brakes on.
And I'm thinking maybe I need to start having some coffee dates too.
What do you think?
— Curious Singleton