So, my bachelorette party was last Saturday. It was nice...and thankfully pretty tame. The problem is that i have a friend who's about to graduate and is starting to looking for a job, so she's particularly sensitve about things posted of her/about her on websites.
Basically, before the party, she asked me not to post any pictures of her or anything embarassing on facebook, which i was fine with. Unfortunately, some friends posted pictures of the party on facebook (they didn't tag her since she deleted her fb account) but since they tagged me - her husband told her about the pictures. There were stupid props in some of the pictures (a freaking peni$ straw). There was only one pic. of her and the prop wasn't in it - it was just a pic. of her and another friend.
So, i get this text seriously berating me for being rude, inconsiderate, disrespectful, etc. for posting those pictures and how i needed to take them down. i texted her back letting her know that i didn't put them up but i would let my friend know to take pics of her down. this goes back and forth - i told her how i basically thought she was the one being rude - then she blames me for not telling her about the pictures or not telling my friend to take them down.
I tell her that I seriously hadn't had time to think about that, i've been doing last minute wedding stuff, my parents just came back into town, and i've been working - so i hadn't even looked at all the pictures to untag the ones i didn't like of me!
Im seriously at the point where i want to say forget it - you don't need to come into town for my wedding - i don't need you as a bridesmaid. Throughout most of our friendship, she is someone that has always been very self-centered and somewhat crazy. it's almost as if we've remained friends just based on the good times we had way back in high school.
This is all happening just a few days before the wedding... . I seriously don't know what to do... I'm seriously so pissed off that i can't call her to talk this through - nor do i know if i really want to work this out.