Things have been (mostly) quiet related to her recently, until this morning.
Last night, DH and I ran out to get new brakes for his car and a few odds and ends. When we got home, we noticed a styrofoam cup and a napkin in our yard. We bitched about her being a crazy bitch, but we didn't pick it up. DH put brakes on his car, I made dinner, and we mostly forgot about it.
I take DefConn to the sitter this morning and come back. I'm walking up to my front door and I hear, 'tap, tap, tap'. I'm looking around and notice her silhouette in her side door (the top half is glass and it's tinted, plus the inside of her garage was mostly dark.) She's waving at me. I stare her down and then point to the cup and say, "WHY ARE YOU LEAVING TRASH IN MY YARD?!" She flips me off.
I'm officially creeped out by this. It makes me wonder how often she sits in her garage staring at us. So I went to my neighbor on the other side of me (who's a paralegal) and asked her to talk to her boss about this situation and see what she suggests. This is harrassment and intimidation and I'm done.