HELP! My best guy friend has recently started dating this girl again who, quite frankly, we all hoped we'd never have to deal with again. It's not just a matter of not liking her, that I could deal with. She's a TERRIBLE person. They most recently broke up because she PUNCHED HIM IN THE FACE. I know that people say sometimes you just have to get over it and think "Well, I'll hardly have time to notice her on the big day!" - but that is simply not the case here. A few years ago, she had a major falling out with my SIL (and all the rest of our friends) in the months leading up to my brother & SIL's wedding. The invitations hadn't been sent out yet, and we were just getting started with planning the shower, so we figured "Well, we just won't invite her. Problem solved. No drama." Yeah. Right. The day of the shower, she showed up with a VERY loud and obnoxious entourage and demanded to be seated on the deck of the restaurant (right next to the area where the shower was occuring). She then proceeded to get very intoxicated and yell loudly about the bride-to-be and everyone else involved in the wedding....
I've already told my best friend after their last break up that I didn't care what their relationship status was at the time of the wedding, she's NOT coming. The issue is this : She's already mentioned to several people that she plans on attending the wedding, even though he's told her he "doesn't have a plus one." Should she say something to me about this, what do I say? (AKA how the hell do I keep from punching her right in her stupid little face!) There is no doubt in my mind that if she showed up to the wedding, she'd come with an "I won't be ignored" attitude and *someone* would end up calling the police. UGH! What can I say to her to keep her AWAY!?!