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family exes?

My Brother-in-law to be and his fiance recently ended things.  Over the course of their relationship she and I became friends and were excited to someday be sisters in law.  My fiance thinks I should call her and make sure she's doing ok after the break-up but I don't know.  I'd still like to be her friend, but is that taboo because she's a family member's ex?
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Re: family exes?

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    Not in my opinion, you can still be a friend and listen without getting directly involved.  I would think she would apprecaite knowing your family still cares about her.
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    edited May 2012
    i would still reach out to her especially if you 2 are friends.
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    How close are you to your brother? Also how did things end between them? If it was her fault, the answer is a hands down no! I have a similar situation going on right now and I would be crushed if my sisters continued to be friends with my ex.
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    I can't stand it when people break up and think you can't like the ex anymore. If it was a clean break up and you have no reason to dislike that person, then who cares she's not engaged to ur soon to be brother n law. If it bothers your brother n law, too bad. He'll get over it. I would absolutely call her and see how she's doing, if you want to be a good friend :) 
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    Thanks all =) luckily they got back together!
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