Seshat, I want to know the whole story...

ReturnOfKuus

...that makes choosing to avoid the fun life experience of dating make sense.  Until then, I will imagine you as such:

[img]http://tinyurl.com/y9a8n6w[/img]

MrsMyrtle

Oh this should be good.

[Deleted User]

No, I was the 20-year-old virgin. A little less loser-ish but still a little bit on the freak side.

I won't go into the details because I don't like rehashing it, but I didn't date because I didn't trust men. From the time I was a kid I've known what evil they are capable of and seeing as how it was my own family that hurt me, I pretty much swore off men and relationships for good in elementary school. Healthy, not so much, but it worked for me. I decided to concentrate on school instead.

Then I was drugged in college and after that, decided that men completely and entirely sucked. I refused to even talk to DH about a date for months, until my friends finally irritated me into a blind date. Obviously, it worked out and he's the only guy outside of immediate family that I've ever trusted completely.

So, there you go. Honestly, I don't feel like I've missed out on a fun life experience, dating was never important to me. I like knowing that DH is the only guy for me, especially when I see my best friend racking up notches on her bedpost faster than most frat boys and totally hating herself for not being able to find a decent man.