Ok I will make this short sweet and simple-
My FMIL was a bit testy with the whole wedding thing to begin with. Crazy here and there said not nice things we had a tiff. We're all adults have your argument and get over it. We did.
They offered to pay for the rehearsal dinner, very nice of them and much appreciated. Spoke with her yesterday. She would like to have it at the same place that we are getting married just different menu and different room. I didn't think anything of it and started looking at the menu and picking what we like.
I (dumb me) texted my mother today and said We're going to have it at the place we're getting married. I should have said we were looking at the menu and they suggested just doing there. Nothing is in stone by any means.
She called my father who called me and told me you absolutely cannot have the rehearsal at the same place they are trying to ruin your wedding and they will all complain that the food was this or that when it gets to the wedding. I was like .....
WHAT!
I explained that they are paying and nothing is set in stone.
Mother calls: SCREAMING BLOODY MURDER AT ME, how she will not go if its there, the wedding isn't in the state she wants the place she wants nothing is the way she wants it why does his bleep mother get anything she wants. LOW AND BEHOLD WW3 happens.
BTW I'm at work and on my cell while MOB is SCREAMING fit at me. I tell her I have to go continues to scream--- had to hang up. Calls immediately back SCREAMING---had to hang up and turned my phone off.
I'm shaking and tears are forming. I was just happy his family wanted to be apart of our day and they are paying I didn't see the problem.....
Dear Knoties should it not be at the same place or is something jumping head first into the deep end over there??