Here is a lil FYI to help you understand a little better. I went to school with this guest and a couple other guests invited. All of the other guests at school that were invited have mailed their rsvp back to me already ( they were do May 14) This guest told me verbally that she would be coming. I didn't write anything down thnking she would have the courtesy to mail it back to me. Who wouldn't mail an already addressed and stamped envelope back, but she didn't. So I have made plans for how many guest and everything. Now after all the chairs and tables have been ordered, she says to me i didn't mail that back is it okay that I still come? what do I say?
This girl has graduated and lost touch with me. Hasn't even txt to say what's up or anything. Then she came back to school for further education and wants to pick up where things left off.
The other irony to this situation, this guest repeatedly bashes my aunt and her work. I tell her I don't want to hear about it. It's my family for crying out loud.. how my aunt chooses to do her work is her right... My aunt respects that I don't want to hear about it. All of this has happened since she left school and returned. How do I tell this guest sorry but you cause too much conflict you have been uninvited?
I know it's cheesey because I already invited her but these issues didn't start until after all the invites were mailed out.
In response to some of you... this guest chose to wait to rsvp verbally until after the date. May 14 was the cut off. I said quite a few times that I still need the paper back. That is how I am counting the rsvp's. It's not like I can call these people and say o by the way because ppl are lazy and discourteous I know need extra chairs and tables... o and yeah the changing of the info now 2 weeks before the wedding I don't mind paying the extra fees... put yourself in my shoes!