Okay, my situation just keeps getting deeper and deeper. Last year, without any family knowing, my fiancee and I got married because he is in the military and they were going to station him on a boat for a full year. Getting married prevented this. We were engaged anyways, but my family has been planning my wedding since the day I was born. My mom is extremely excited and I am my dads only girl (I'm a big daddy's girl). I just found out I am pregnant (not planned) and I feel like having a big wedding is selfish. I have been dreaming of a big fairy tale wedding all my life, but don't know what to do. I know my parents want a huge wedding as well, but am I being selfish?!