My maid of honor is in the theatre field so she is always busy on nights and weekends, therefor it is nearly impossible to get her to a fitting or appointment. I went with 3 other girls from a size 0-14 and tried on dresses. We picked one we thought would be flattering on all sizes, flowy, empire waisted and long... after 4 girls ordered.. my maid of honor saw the dress and said it doesn't look good on "fat girls" like her and if I insisted on setting her up for humiliation she would not wear that dress. What do I do? Do I give her her way and let her pick her own dress and be differnet from the other 5 or do I take her offer to let her step aside and not be in the wedding? We have been friends for `18 years but definitely drifted in the past. I was her maid of honor and received a paper with a picture of the bridesmaids dress chosen and bought it, no questions asked/. $182 later and 3 years later she STILL doesn't know I hate that dress. Did I mention she went on facebook and complained that she was going to have to pay a fair amount of money to look like a whale for a bridesmaids dress? What do i do?~!!??!