Wedding Woes

Being unemployed is teh ossum

I don't mean that in an AW-y way, just that I've gotten past the stage where I kept threatening to start breathing into a paper bag.  Yesterday's phone interview with an HR chick led to a second phone interview with the actual hiring manager tomorrow.  I still have last week's live interview in the fire.  I've applied for a few other jobs, which may turn into nothing or something. 

In the mean time, DH and I have been trading off half-days:  I look after the Woozle in the a.m. while he works on his job search, and then at lunch we swap.  This has given him tons more time to network, which has gotten him more contacts, more people asking him to send his resume, and now he has a phone interview tomorrow, too. 

The weather has been gorgeous here, and I have really been enjoying my Woozle time.  She is more and more verbal every day and tries to discuss everything that's going on, which is fun.  We play, bake, go for wagon rides, feed the ducks, etc. 

It's not sustainable forever, so I'm definitely not coasting.  And the issue of insurance still worries me--I'm insured through my old job through the end of February, and then as part of my severance they're paying my COBRA premium for March (just short of $1800 for a family of three--SMDH), but after that if neither DH nor I have a job we're going to have to either shell out some serious cash for insurance or pay out of pocket.  Neither one are really great options.  So it's not perfect, but considering I was literally sick to my stomach the first night, it's actually working out better than I thought.  And because DH and I are both busy between looking for jobs and caring for the Woozle AND we're on opposite schedules, we're not getting on each other's nerves like I thought we might.

Keeping my fingers crossed that Mr. Heff and I both land jobs shortly, but in the mean time, things could be a lot worse.  I am, however, woefully behind here.  :(

Re: Being unemployed is teh ossum

  • mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm so glad this is turning into a positive experience for you, Mr. Heff, and the Woozle.  I'm still sending all my purple shirt vibes that one of you comes up with a job sooner than later, but enjoy this time now. 

    I'm sure you'll look back on it semi-fondly as a good bonding experience for all of you.
  • TheDuckisTheDuckis member
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    edited December 2011
    That sounds pretty nice, all things considered. And good for you on getting all the interviews. I'm sure something will pan out soon.
  • ReturnOfKuusReturnOfKuus member
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    edited December 2011
    I've been hearing this from a lot of people, which is nice, considering that I'm facing imminent unemployment myself.
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  • mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_being-unemployed-teh-ossum?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:4d4f48f6-d0ed-4bf9-b13e-3e8dc4471eb0Post:6563a41c-22a1-48f7-bdc6-82da12f1ceef">Re: Being unemployed is teh ossum</a>:
    [QUOTE]I've been hearing this from a lot of people, which is nice, considering that I'm facing imminent unemployment myself.
    Posted by ReturnOfKuus[/QUOTE]

    That sucks Kuus. 
  • ReturnOfKuusReturnOfKuus member
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    edited December 2011
    Yeah, but what can you do?  My biggest fear was never wanting to go back to work after tasting sweet-sweet freedom, but when I told that to Mr. Kuus, he was jsut like "so don't go back."
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  • edited December 2011
    That's great about your H's interview tomorrow Heffa - still sending lots of job vibes to both of you! 

    Kuus - what's going on at work?
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  • edited December 2011
    I'm glad you have found a way to make this work for you. Selfishly, I miss you 'round these here parts.
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  • Butter CookieButter Cookie member
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    edited December 2011
    Heffa you could always look into a short-term medical plan so that you're not without insurance.

    If you do make sure they offer a certificate of creditible coverage so you don't have to deal with the prexisting condition nonsense. Also: I'm glad you're no longer freaking out and also that you have promising interviews. I'm even wearing purple today, and since I already used it for my needs you can have the rest of the purple power to use at your discretion.
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  • HeffalumpHeffalump member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_being-unemployed-teh-ossum?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:47Discussion:4d4f48f6-d0ed-4bf9-b13e-3e8dc4471eb0Post:6afe54c7-e681-4fd8-8c9d-018798721b6c">Re: Being unemployed is teh ossum</a>:
    [QUOTE]Heffa you could always look into a short-term medical plan so that you're not without insurance. If you do make sure they offer a certificate of creditible coverage so you don't have to deal with the prexisting condition nonsense. Also: I'm glad you're no longer freaking out and also that you have promising interviews. I'm even wearing purple today, and since I already used it for my needs you can have the rest of the purple power to use at your discretion.
    Posted by Butter Cookie[/QUOTE]
    That is excellent adviSe--thank you, BC.  (And thanks for the surplus purple vibes, too!)
  • ReturnOfKuusReturnOfKuus member
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    edited December 2011
    Did I miss how your phone screen went?
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  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    edited December 2011

    Word for word what BC said.

    I'm glad you are seeing a little silver lining and you and the husband are working through things.  Good luck on the upcoming interviews for both of you.

  • GBCKGBCK member
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    edited December 2011
    I"m glad.
    re" insurance, I'd also say, call your current insurer and ask about a "group conversion plan."
    Expect the first 3 people you talk to to have NO IDEA what you're talking about.  Insist that they probably have one, please to send you info.

    We did this when I lost a job.
    Basically it 'converts' you from the group plan to an indivudual plan.
    No lapse, no pre-existing condition.  No nothing bad.
    WAAAaaay cheaper than cobra.

    We chose a modertatly high deductable plan and it saved our bacon when the Mr. discovered the pesky severe shellfish allergy.
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