Does anyone have experience with planning a wedding while family members are ill? Last month I got the kind of news that makes your world flip upside down. My dad was diagnosed with an aggressive brain tumor. He's had surgery to remove it and is now undergoing radiation and chemotherapy. He's doing good right now, but it's been a lot for my family to deal with. On top of that my uncle (his brother) just passed away from cancer and my grandma (his mother) is not in good shape and seems to be nearing the end of her life. I've been feeling very conflicted. My wedding is just two months away and sometimes I feel guilty for feeling so excited when all these people around me are dealing with illnesses and loss. And, planning a wedding is stressful enough without having to watch your dad go through brain surgery. I know life happens whether you're planning a wedding or not, but it makes me sad sometimes that this time in my life that is supposed to be so happy and exciting is also filled with so much sadness. Has anyone else out there gone through something similar? Any words of wisdom to share?