I am supposed to be getting married next august and I do not have a venue yet, because I thought I wanted a backyard bbq wedding at my dads. I am having second thoughts for MANY reasons. For the tent, chairs, dance floor, food etc, would be about $3500, plus I need to rent a porta potty which is about 200. I dont want a cheesey looking tent, so I know I would have to spend ALOT on decorations. I am sooooo confused because Fratellos seems to be cheaper, if not just about the same. I am also worried about it being to hott at a backyard wedding and myself and my guests being uncomfortable...anyone have any thoughts or have been in my shoes?! HELP!