SIL and her MIL threw me a baby shower this weekend. It was lovely, and I know SIL has had a lot on her plate recently. I sent them thank yous for their gifts, but I'd like to send a separate card and gift to each for all their work. I was going to get them a gift certificate to a spa via SpaFinder (they can use it at a bajillion different places here in town). But then I realized that SIL is so busy with her kid that she never has time to do that sort of stuff, and her MIL has a lady she goes to for everything so they may not get used.
I was thinking of putting a check in each card with a note that they should use it for something for themselves. But that seems impersonal.
The other option was just a GC to a store they like to shop at. But knowing SIL and her MIL, they might end up using it buy something for someone else.
I know this should not be that hard for me, but I am really thankful for everything they did and I don't want to half-ass this one.