Bad wedding dreams...

tamrahelmer

Lately I've been having some type of bad wedding dream almost every night. Does anyone else have this?! The other night I had a dream that the flowers never showed up to church, and we walked without them! Its kind of funny, but at the same time I'm double checking things the next morning! lol

zsazsa-stl

Real life anxiety always brings on anxiety dreams for me.  You are five months out!  Try to find a way to deal with that anxiety now or else those are going to be a very long five months.

MinM

I had wedding-related nightmares, too. Just actively dealing with the stress was the only thing that helped out the cause.

GBCK

this thread was more entertaing when I read the title as 'bed wetting dreams'

mdeidre

I had one before my first wedding where the day came and I realized that I had forgotten to invite anyone. 

This time around, the dream was that my ex-husband showed up and explained that I couldn't marry anyone else, I could only marry him again.  Everyone agreed with his charm and logic and forced me to marry and go home with him.

tamrahelmer

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_bad-wedding-dreams?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:533f0c3f-db51-46eb-92ec-e7d08ddbc091Post:66cbff1e-ec81-4ba1-9741-e4ee717e36e1">Re: Bad wedding dreams...</a>:
[QUOTE]I had one before my first wedding where the day came and I realized that I had forgotten to invite anyone.  This time around, the dream was that my ex-husband showed up and explained that I couldn't marry anyone else, I could only marry him again.  Everyone agreed with his charm and logic and forced me to marry and go home with him.
Posted by mdeidre[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>Ohhh boy! meaning you've had this dream more than once? </div>

mdeidre

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_bad-wedding-dreams?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:47Discussion:533f0c3f-db51-46eb-92ec-e7d08ddbc091Post:55e628f6-57ca-4488-8c1f-35047c714fa6">Re: Bad wedding dreams...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Bad wedding dreams... : Ohhh boy! meaning you've had this dream more than once? 
Posted by tamrahelmer[/QUOTE]

Twice, not fun.  My ex was abusive, so I'm working through some stuff.  When I told him I wanted a divorce, he tried to tell me that an elder at a huge church in our area told him that I couldn't divorce him because he hadn't cheated on me and that the Bible said that I could only divorce him if he was a womanizer.  I had to get a cop, a detective, my uncle who has a 6th degree black belt and my divorce lawyer to all talk to him to get him to stop stalking me.

tamrahelmer

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Bad wedding dreams... : Twice, not fun.  My ex was abusive, so I'm working through some stuff.  When I told him I wanted a divorce, he tried to tell me that an elder at a huge church in our area told him that I couldn't divorce him because he hadn't cheated on me and that the Bible said that I could only divorce him if he was a womanizer.  I had to get a cop, a detective, my uncle who has a 6th degree black belt and my divorce lawyer to all talk to him to get him to stop stalking me.
Posted by mdeidre[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>Oh wow. I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. I would say that is a pretty bad dream then. Hopefully you don't have it again!</div>