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this girl is a psycho...vent really long

I just have to tell this story because it has been pissing me off for weeks and I told everyone it would happen and IT DID and I just think it is funny and ridiculous.
A couple weeks ago there was something on my fiances facebook about the wedding and this obnoxious girl (his sisters friend) comments "HEY JUST A QUESTION AM I INVITED TO THE WEDDING?" When i saw this I flipped out because 1) I can't stand this girl, at every party his sister has she makes my skin crawl because she is so obnoxious 2) She likes to brag to me about how she has known my fiance longer than I have and she is "part of their family" 3) I know she has a crush or something on him because she is always like hanging on him and on me trying to piss me off.
So obviously she is not invited, my fiance can't stand her either but today it was his nephews birthday party and ever since she made the FB comment I have been telling him - at this party she is going to come up to us and harass us about the wedding. WHICH SHE DID! JUST LIKE I SAID!
She stomped right up to him and started tapping her foot just staring at him...I immediately rolled my eyes and walked away because I knew she would do this and I was in such a bad mood I felt like I was going to slap her. I could hear her complaining that she was part of the family and why wasn't she invited? Blah blah blah....then she was like begging him if someone doesn't show up, can she fill their seat? Um how about no? Neither of us like you, you idiot. My fiance told her she wasn't invited so the rest of the day she pouted in the house and I didn't say one word to her LOL. I just think this whole thing is funny because she has no class- what kind of person does this? I can't stand her!!! She makes my blood boil....I avoided her all day because I felt like I was going to freaking attack her lol sorry for the long vent.....

Re: this girl is a psycho...vent really long

  • Butter CookieButter Cookie member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_this-girl-psychovent-really-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:5c4e4387-9c53-4d47-a115-88572a433fd4Post:4741e053-d1de-4354-b233-794f9279c525">this girl is a psycho...vent really long</a>:
    [QUOTE]I just have to tell this story because it has been pissing me off for weeks and I told everyone it would happen and IT DID and I just think it is funny and ridiculous. A couple weeks ago there was something on my fiances facebook about the wedding and this obnoxious girl (his sisters friend) comments "HEY JUST A QUESTION AM I INVITED TO THE WEDDING?" When i saw this I flipped out because 1) I can't stand this girl, at every party his sister has she makes my skin crawl because she is so obnoxious 2) She likes to brag to me about how she has known my fiance longer than I have and she is "part of their family" 3) I know she has a crush or something on him because she is always like hanging on him and on me trying to piss me off. So obviously she is not invited, my fiance can't stand her either but today it was his nephews birthday party and ever since she made the FB comment I have been telling him - at this party she is going to come up to us and harass us about the wedding. WHICH SHE DID! JUST LIKE I SAID! She stomped right up to him and started tapping her foot just staring at him...I immediately rolled my eyes and walked away because I knew she would do this and I was in such a bad mood I felt like I was going to slap her. I could hear her complaining that she was part of the family and why wasn't she invited? Blah blah blah....then she was like begging him if someone doesn't show up, can she fill their seat? Um how about no? Neither of us like you, you idiot. My fiance told her she wasn't invited so the rest of the day she pouted in the house and I didn't say one word to her LOL. I just think this whole thing is funny because she has no class- what kind of person does this? I can't stand her!!! She makes my blood boil....I avoided her all day because I felt like I was going to freaking attack her lol sorry for the long vent.....
    Posted by Abochino[/QUOTE]


    Does his family have a dog or cat? If so let her know that, while they are a part of the family, they mainly eat, sht, and yap, and aren't invited to the wedding.

    Okay okay maybe that's not the best idea, but really, neither of you like her. Make it clear she's not invited and not someone you want to continue any sort of relationship with. 
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  • Blueyed228Blueyed228 member
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    edited December 2011

    Paragraphs please.

    If you hate her so much and she makes your skin crawl, then why not just tell her.  Something like "Im sorry you are confused, but we really do not consider you part of our family and we are keeping our list to just family and close friends.  Thank you for all the well wishes though!"

    You dont have to be rude about it, but letting someone know where they stand is much easier than having to deal with them for years to come.

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  • skippylouwhoskippylouwho member
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    edited December 2011
    BC - I LOVE the dog, cat comment.  That was great.
  • baconsmombaconsmom member
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    edited December 2011
    You know, I hear stories like this - some girl has a crush on  an attached man, the woman attached to him calls her "psycho" and gets "pissed for weeks" about things - and I just wonder how long it's going to be before the "women" are brawling in the dirt yard in front of a trailer. 

    The girl has a crush on your fiance. His family is close to her - are you surprised that another woman would find him attractive? She knows he's getting married. She's not trying to "take" him. Why are you stewing about this? What sort of insecurities are driving you to be obsessed by it instead of teasing him and moving on, or ignoring it altogether? 

    Your problem is not that this girl wants to be invited. Your problem is that you can't just accept this as flattering to your taste in men and moving on. 
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  • DG1DG1 member
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    edited December 2011
    agreed with bmom.  You don't need to invite her, but your rage is really unnecessary. 

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  • edited December 2011

     Dont tell me to use paragraphs
    Why would I be flattered about this you dumbass? You are all such losers on this website I am so done with it...LOL some of you are married for 5 years with kids and you still comment on here.
    Calm down it was a funny story...You all have sticks up your asses all the time... All I ever see is rude comments to peoples issues....It is called a vent I wasn't looking for your advice on anything...Yea I have a temper and this girl pissed me off so I vented about it, what the hell do you care?

  • Butter CookieButter Cookie member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_this-girl-psychovent-really-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:5c4e4387-9c53-4d47-a115-88572a433fd4Post:185dec21-7518-482f-bb73-188c7ae306a4">Re: this girl is a psycho...vent really long</a>:
    [QUOTE] Dont tell me to use paragraphs Why would I be flattered about this you dumbass? You are all such losers on this website I am so done with it...LOL some of you are married for 5 years with kids and you still comment on here. Calm down it was a funny story...You all have sticks up your asses all the time... All I ever see is rude comments to peoples issues....It is called a vent I wasn't looking for your advice on anything...Yea I have a temper and this girl pissed me off so I vented about it, what the hell do you care?
    Posted by Abochino[/QUOTE]


    Hey, I gave you good advice. No need to be a snot.
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  • edited December 2011
    I was talking about baconsmom and dg
  • duckie1905duckie1905 member
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    edited December 2011
    Your story isn't funny.  Its just sad and stupid.
  • edited December 2011
    If all you ever see are rude comments, then why did you bother posting here? Did you think your story (which isn't funny by the way) would get a different response?

    And people have every right to tell you to use paragraphs. One long ramble is incredibly irritating to read.
  • edited December 2011

    like i said you all have sticks up your asses as usual

  • edited December 2011
    lol! It's a vent people, calm down. It's not like she's attacking any of you personally. Sometimes there's nothing that can make someone more mad than some chick trying to overstep on your man. Even if your fiance isn't interested at all and a girl acts like this, it can make anyone's blood boil. And, being female, she wants to talk about it.

    Anyway, if you don't have another person to vent to, why not vent on the internet? As long as you disclaim it it's not that big of a deal.

    And for everyone blowing up about her venting here...........why comment?  Why come here and read it?
  • edited December 2011
    I agree. It's just a vent. Just because this girl bothers her doesn't mean shes insecure. She sounds obnoxious to me too.
    And it's fine if you don't agree, or are such an awesome person that you never get annoyed with people, but don't criticize someone else because of how they feel. Its completely hypocritical.
  • crushgirliecrushgirlie member
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    edited December 2011
    All I have to say is WOW! To the poster and to the comments!
  • Blueyed228Blueyed228 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_this-girl-psychovent-really-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:47Discussion:5c4e4387-9c53-4d47-a115-88572a433fd4Post:185dec21-7518-482f-bb73-188c7ae306a4">Re: this girl is a psycho...vent really long</a>:
    [QUOTE] Dont tell me to use paragraphs Why would I be flattered about this you dumbass? You are all such losers on this website I am so done with it...LOL some of you are married for 5 years with kids and you still comment on here. Calm down it was a funny story...You all have sticks up your asses all the time... All I ever see is rude comments to peoples issues....It is called a vent I wasn't looking for your advice on anything...Yea I have a temper and this girl pissed me off so I vented about it, what the hell do you care?
    Posted by Abochino[/QUOTE]

    I told you to use paragraphs so I dont have to read through a wall of whiney text to get to your actual point,

    We dont care what happened in your ridiculous life, but when you post it for all to see, you are going to get all sorts of comments about it.  If you didnt want any feedback, why would you think we want to hear about your idiotic drama?

    It seems like you came here looking for validation, and when you didnt get it, you turned into a baby.

    I find it cute that you called us rude, and in the same breath tell us we have sticks up our asses.

    Stop being an immature brat.  And unless your FI is Brad Pitt, I doubt anyone is trying that hard to get your man.  Maybe its time to GTF over yourself.

    It sounds like your a jealous baby who needs to grow up.
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  • edited December 2011
    Insecurities, you haz them.
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  • nda_roxybabenda_roxybabe member
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    edited December 2011
    Um wow. Ridiculous. Tell her she is not invited and leave it at that. The end.
  • leaynleayn member
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    edited December 2011
    Yea...just tell her she isn't invited.  This probably would have been accepted as a simple vent if you hadn't called the people you reached out to a bunch of ridiculous crap.  Maybe this belongs on your fb page instead of a place where you hate everyone.
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  • jennylove810jennylove810 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_this-girl-psychovent-really-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:5c4e4387-9c53-4d47-a115-88572a433fd4Post:2330ac3b-d92c-46ff-b264-347fa0e0c7b1">Re: this girl is a psycho...vent really long</a>:
    [QUOTE]like i said you all have sticks up your asses as usual
    Posted by Abochino[/QUOTE]

    <div>Get out of my state.</div>
  • edited December 2011
    When is the funny part of the story coming?
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  • jlmarks83jlmarks83 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_this-girl-psychovent-really-long?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:47Discussion:5c4e4387-9c53-4d47-a115-88572a433fd4Post:4741e053-d1de-4354-b233-794f9279c525">this girl is a psycho...vent really long</a>:
    [QUOTE]I just have to tell this story because it has been pissing me off for weeks and I told everyone it would happen and IT DID and I just think it is funny and ridiculous. A couple weeks ago there was something on my fiances facebook about the wedding and this obnoxious girl (his sisters friend) comments "HEY JUST A QUESTION AM I INVITED TO THE WEDDING?" When i saw this I flipped out because 1) I can't stand this girl, at every party his sister has she makes my skin crawl because she is so obnoxious 2) She likes to brag to me about how she has known my fiance longer than I have and she is "part of their family" 3) I know she has a crush or something on him because she is always like hanging on him and on me trying to piss me off. So obviously she is not invited, my fiance can't stand her either but today it was his nephews birthday party and ever since she made the FB comment I have been telling him - at this party she is going to come up to us and harass us about the wedding. WHICH SHE DID! JUST LIKE I SAID! She stomped right up to him and started tapping her foot just staring at him...I immediately rolled my eyes and walked away because I knew she would do this and I was in such a bad mood I felt like I was going to slap her. I could hear her complaining that she was part of the family and why wasn't she invited? Blah blah blah....then she was like begging him if someone doesn't show up, can she fill their seat? Um how about no? Neither of us like you, you idiot. My fiance told her she wasn't invited so the rest of the day she pouted in the house and I didn't say one word to her LOL. I just think this whole thing is funny because she has no class- what kind of person does this? I can't stand her!!! She makes my blood boil....I avoided her all day because I felt like I was going to freaking attack her lol sorry for the long vent.....
    Posted by Abochino[/QUOTE]

    I see nothing funny in this......
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  • edited December 2011

    I disagree. I was entertained.

    I find the lack of maturity humourous at least - particularly with the responses to those who gave advice. When I read posts like this, I have to wonder how old the person is who is writing it and if they are mature enough to be getting married (I recognize that maturity and chronological age can be two different things, though).
     
    I mean really, just really, you're raging mad because some girl is obnoxious and clingy. Learn some coping mechanisms because life is all about making the best of things you don't like. Either learn to like them or learn to cope.

    Some of us actually do come on here to get good, honest advice to keep us in line. At least these kind of posts do provide a little entertainment though.

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