So you might remember one of my cousins who was not invited went ahead and invited himself, which I was ignoring until my uncle (his dad--the one who is sick) asked if he could come. So we told him he could come. (I kept saying he wouldn't show anyway.)
He just called my sister and says he can't come because he doesn't have a ride (no license). LOL! You would think you'd figure that out BEFORE inviting yourself to someone's wedding. I just have to laugh at this point!