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Read this whole thing. <--that sentence is the link... I gotta get used to TK rules again.

It gets hilarious about halfway down. Srsly. I actually laughed out loud.

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    DG1DG1 member
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    I also laughed out loud.  Awesome.  There's some logic.

    And I am C&Ping in case it gets deleted before morning.


    Newlyweds in a slump

    ok so I'm not sure how to start this. My husband and I have been married for 8 months, but have been together for a little over 6 years and I'm having trouble getting him in the mood. At first it was no big deal , but now I'm really worried, we only have sex maybe 1 a month and that is not enough for me. When ever I bring it up to him he just says I dont feel like it. I got him taking vitamins because I thought that might help. But no, I know he isn't cheating on me, and when I ask hi what I can do to help he says nothing dear, your just a sex addict. lol..we are in our mid- 20's and I don't feel like this is normal behavior. I need some advise. He thinks its no big deal but I need attention.
     
     
    02-25-2010 at 1:18 PM
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    When did this problem start?


     
     
    02-25-2010 at 1:27 PM
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    the last few years it seems like we do it less and less, and this is the worst it has ever been. Seriously 1 a month...lol...all of our friends have nick named him the camel because he can go a long time with out it. that is not the kind of nick-name i want him to have.
     
     
    02-25-2010 at 1:28 PM
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    He needs to understand your needs. Let him know its not just sex its the closeness it brings to the realtionship.  Maybe he is just tired from work.  I found out with my husband that he liked it earlier while I liked it right before bed so we werent ever really having sex.  Now sometimes i make sure to catch him right after work when he is up for it and he does the same for me some nights

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    02-25-2010 at 1:35 PM
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    rachmetmark:
    the last few years it seems like we do it less and less, and this is the worst it has ever been. Seriously 1 a month...lol...all of our friends have nick named him the camel because he can go a long time with out it. that is not the kind of nick-name i want him to have.

    Well, since you said it was the last few years...you know what im going to say right?



     
     
    02-25-2010 at 1:42 PM
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    no I dont know what ur going to say....sex just isn't important to him but it is to me. I'm tired of worrying about it.
     
     
    02-25-2010 at 1:47 PM
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    Did you start talking to him about it when it first started becoming less frequent.  Since it's been a couple years, that was long before you were married.  Was this ever discussed to the point that both of your were satisfied with the outcome?
     
    02-25-2010 at 1:54 PM
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    we did talk about it before but I dont remember anything being settled. I just need some advise on how to fix it, should I see a couselor? or jsut leave it alone....??????????
     
     
    02-25-2010 at 1:56 PM
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    magsugar13:
    rachmetmark:
    the last few years it seems like we do it less and less, and this is the worst it has ever been. Seriously 1 a month...lol...all of our friends have nick named him the camel because he can go a long time with out it. that is not the kind of nick-name i want him to have.

    Well, since you said it was the last few years...you know what im going to say right?

    I'm going to say why is it an important issue now? This WAS a problem BEFORE the wedding and should have been dealt with then. Did you think it would change because he gave you a ring and said i do?



     
     
    02-25-2010 at 2:00 PM
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    rachmetmark:
    we did talk about it before but I dont remember anything being settled. I just need some advise on how to fix it, should I see a couselor? or jsut leave it alone....??????????

    Passion wanes over time -- so does the frequency of sex -- but you should have addressed this problem WHEN it began happening, which was, according to you, a while ago.

    Sounds to me also like you and he need to communicate. There's evidently none right now.

    Trouble getting into the mood? Maybe he's fine with the way things are, maybe it's passion waning, maybe he's got a health problem. You're going to have to sit down with him and discuss this, frankly and openly and at length. He owes it to you to work on this with you. GL.


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    02-25-2010 at 2:03 PM
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    yes I did think it would change cuz I was raised to believe that sex before marriage was a sin. even though we did it anyway, I just thought we would do it more now that we are married and its no longer a sin. we love each other...why not.
     
     
    02-25-2010 at 2:33 PM
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    Is he on any meds, so any drugs, drink alot of alcohol, is he depressed, under alot of stressed?
     
     
    02-25-2010 at 2:37 PM
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    He does drink beer at night but no more then 1, but I dont think he is stressed or depressed. No meds, just mens 1 a day vitamins, and vitamin C.
     
     
    02-25-2010 at 2:40 PM
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    rachmetmark:
    yes I did think it would change cuz I was raised to believe that sex before marriage was a sin. even though we did it anyway, I just thought we would do it more now that we are married and its no longer a sin. we love each other...why not.

    I don't mean to be a b!tch, but am I the only one that finds this hilarious?

    Usually things being forbidden or dirty makes sex better not worse.  Did you live together before marriage?


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    02-25-2010 at 2:42 PM
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    rachmetmark:
    yes I did think it would change cuz I was raised to believe that sex before marriage was a sin. even though we did it anyway, I just thought we would do it more now that we are married and its no longer a sin. we love each other...why not.

    I don't mean to upset your apple cart, but this is patent nonsense. A wedding ring isn't a magic item that transforms a guy into a raging sex machine. 


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    02-25-2010 at 2:52 PM
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    well I'm glad some of u find this hilarious, or nonsense, when this is a real problem in my home. I know he wouldn't turn in to a sex machine but a girl can hope..lol. Yes we lived together before we got married.
     
     
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    Actually, my favorite part of this is that they're going on vacation in May, and she hopes that will magically get them out of their rut. So she's willing do deal with this quietly for three more months, on the off-chance that having a different bed for a weekend is all they need.
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    Hilarious.  I do hate how many times the OP puts "lol" in her responses.  Yes, lol.  We are loling at you, you damn fool.
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    edited December 2011
    ossum!
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