is anyone else freaking out?

kiki51981

Everytime I have a fight with my fiance, even if it's over something stupid like who is gonna feed the dog I freak out.... like this is gonna be my life... forever...anyone else feel that way or am I totally screwed?

lnl1025

just stress and jitters im guessing. My fiance and I have been kind of the same way..Everything has been setting us both off lately. I know 90% of it is wedding/finances related. Our original guest list was 100.. his parents must invite list was 100... we told them no, and cut the list back down... They got mad, we gave in..Ive been trying to plan the wedding we want with twice as many people, he took a 2nd job to help pay for it, we've both been on edge and stressed... We sat back down and cut the list again and whatdoyaknow... stress level decreased! Now, we're waiting on the backlash lol. But really, I know that prior to wedding planning my fiance and i were great, got thru many different stressors. I think wedding planning is a whole different kind of stress.. it should get better, think positive. That's what we're trying over here lol

subi***1

I believe in that! I've for one been working massive OT at work, not by choice. That I have lost control of me with stress regarding wedding planning! This has been my biggest regret. Too long of an engagemnt just for a wedding...... But I can't wait. 2 wks left, sheesh!

desmcmls

We have been having the same problem with both of us working overtime and I am trying to switch jobs right now, which is adding to the stress.  It is just wedding related.  As long as you have a solid foundation to build on, you will be fine.