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Coirker comes to me and says, "My H is coughing up or vomiting blood.  IDK which.  Can I leave for 30 minutes to pick him up?  He can't drive his motorcycle."  Me, stunned, "Ummm, okay.  So does that mean you're coming back?"

Coirker:  Yes.  I have too much to do.

Me:  Well, what are you going to do with your H?  Surely you're not going to bring his blood barfing self to our office.

C:  Of course not!  I'm going to go pick H up, he's going to drop me back off here, and then he's going to go pick up our son and take Son to the pediatrician.  I really need to organize that notebook for Boss.

Me:  Say that again.  Your H, who you said can't drive b/c he's vomiting blood, is going to put your child in your car and drive him to the doctor's office, and NOT GO TO THE HOSPITAL?!

C:  Yes.  He won't go to the hospital w/o me and I just can't leave work right now.

Y'all, I know her marriage sucks and she probably wants her H to die anyways, but I could not shoo her out of the door fast enough.  Nothing at work is as important as the safety and well being of your loved ones.  Nothing.

::smdh::  It has been a longassmotherfucking day.
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    **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    edited December 2011
    What.  is very appropriate for this.
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    edited December 2011
    Why won't he go to the hospital without her?
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    hmonkeyhmonkey member
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    edited December 2011
    why can't he go to the hospital without her?

    and at least he didn't call a cab.  cabbies really, really hate to pick up "bleeders."
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    edited December 2011
    holy hell
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    edited December 2011
    I asked H to shoot me, not take me to the ER. The prick was all concerned for my safety and shiz and made me get medical attention. What an enviable marriage they have.
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    loveshine1loveshine1 member
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    edited December 2011
    WHAT?

    There are less than 3 hours left in the workday. Surely boss would understand.
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    nicoleg1982nicoleg1982 member
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    edited December 2011
    He has a bajillion medical issues and he can't remember them all.  Also, he's 56% psychotic in the worst ways.  Co-dependence is the least of his issues.
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    ~~Busy.~~~~Busy.~~ member
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    edited December 2011
    more importantly, did she mime the coughing/vomiting?
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    nicoleg1982nicoleg1982 member
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    edited December 2011
    No, Busy.  Bummer.
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    edited December 2011
    H has had to tell the admin people at the ER all of my information every time I have been there. Either I have been vomitting so badly I can't speak - or I am in too much pain to talk. I am guessing if he is coughing/vomitting up blood, he might need some assistance. Crap - bring the notebook to the ER.
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    6fsn6fsn member
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    edited December 2011
    What the hell indeed.  Even if she doesn't care about him, what about the child he's about to pick up?
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    HeffalumpHeffalump member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm guessing she has a LOT of life insurance on him.  Seven figures, minimum.
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    GBCKGBCK member
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    edited December 2011
    so he can't write his medical crapola on a piece of paper like the rest of us?
    (no, it's not preferred but...I"m 90% sure the printout of mine is still in my purse, where it lives.  It might nt be right now because I'm not on any meds so I'm not paranoid oabout making sure I have the current med list)

    and...boss's notebook trumps?
    WTF.
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    edited December 2011
    Good point, Heff. Good point.
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    zsazsa-stlzsazsa-stl member
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    edited December 2011
    My H dropped me off for OP surgery and didn't bother to answer his phone when the doctor tried to call him to tell him how it went.  He wasn't about to miss work for some silly medical thing.

    Maybe he vomits blood on a regular basis and they aren't too concerned.
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