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No, really, help me out here. What? (From WeddingBook, of course.)

FH And I will most likely stay at my mothers house for 1-3 years until we can afford to move out on our own. I told FH I want him to keep his parents address as his until we move out. He said he does not want to drive 25 miles just to get his mail so I said well ok you can have it forwarded. Then get got into argument with me saying Fine then if I cant use your address when we are married then I wont help you pay the taxes since its not my house either pick or choose. He said to me you are only worrying about protecting your mom most girls would tell her mom to f off. He said I am not marrying your mother. I do not know what to do I love them both I do not want anything to happen to my mother I love her and I love FH. I told him if you love me you would do this for me. I also said if I would do it for your mother then he said my mother would not have the nerve to ask you to do something like that.--------------------------------------------------so....they don't have their own place, but he can't use the address of the place he's living? The OP says later in the thread that her mother has "personal reasons" for disallowing the husband to use the address, which just makes it weirder, IMO. WTH kind of reasons could you have for this nonsense? 
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    Oh, I see: Mom's spending my money and doesn't want to lose it!

    Yes that is kinda the same reason my mom does not work. And she is on programs where they montior income so i am worried that once we get married they will look at his income as he makes what they say is a lot of money but only enough to pay the bills. So i am worried they will complelty cut her off.  I do not get why he cant understand this. Yes its her fault she does not work and she admits it everyday. But its my mother I do not want to tell her to F off as I love her. I mean how yould he like if  i said to him most sons tell thier Mom to F off.
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    Insanity is the only reason that springs to mind.
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    registered sex offender
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    Maybe she gets a lot of Adam & Eve catalogs and doesn't want him to see them.
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    I do not approve of any of this.
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    I was concerned when my brother gave my address as his own (just because he kindof moved around a lot).  He has debt problems, and I was afraid some collector would come after our assets, somehow thinking that it was his.

    I know it sounds crazy, since his name wasn't on the house title or anything, but DH almost had his wages garnished because of a guy with the same name who never pays his bills (totally different SSN, but no one seemed to notice that).  He only found out when he heard an HR person at his company gossipping about him. 

    And Nico's car got wrongly repossessed not that long ago.

    So I don't think it's that crazy for me to think that about my bro.

    But these people are just nuts.

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