No, really, help me out here. What? (From WeddingBook, of course.)
FH And I will most likely stay at my mothers house for 1-3 years until we can afford to move out on our own. I told FH I want him to keep his parents address as his until we move out. He said he does not want to drive 25 miles just to get his mail so I said well ok you can have it forwarded. Then get got into argument with me saying Fine then if I cant use your address when we are married then I wont help you pay the taxes since its not my house either pick or choose. He said to me you are only worrying about protecting your mom most girls would tell her mom to f off. He said I am not marrying your mother. I do not know what to do I love them both I do not want anything to happen to my mother I love her and I love FH. I told him if you love me you would do this for me. I also said if I would do it for your mother then he said my mother would not have the nerve to ask you to do something like that.--------------------------------------------------so....they don't have their own place, but he can't use the address of the place he's living? The OP says later in the thread that her mother has "personal reasons" for disallowing the husband to use the address, which just makes it weirder, IMO. WTH kind of reasons could you have for this nonsense?