Tonight my mother came over with chicken soup to help me feel better (I've been sick for a few days). She gave me an envelope with a note from my brother. She had no idea what was in it.
Well, the note basically said if I can take time to go to the beach and be with friends why can't I give him 2 hours to TELL me what his beliefs are (he is autistic and has fixed delusions about each race except white people...I cannot tell you as a social worker and decent human being how embarrassing and upsetting this is for me even though I know he has something wrong with him) and that he can save me from the evil in the world my my own ignorance. If I don't "honor your own flesh a blood over the Zionists you defend" he will not come to my wedding.
He agreed to do a presentation on adult autism and then recently told me he will not help me anymore if I don't sit and listen to him about these things (which I already KNOW because he tells me all the time and posts crazy stuff on facebook). Well, I do not desire to do so PLUS I have not had the time (hello, working with crackheads who leave their kids in cars to go get high...all day and planning the most important day of my life). This is where it is stemming from.
My mother went home and confronted him and he expects an apology from me. Not going to happen.
Aside from ex-parte-ing him and having him held for a couple days when I get back from the honeymoon I don't know what I can do.