I want to punch women in the face when they tell men that it's not important that a woman has an org

ReturnOfKuus

I think I might hate these women as much as I hate strippers.

**O-Face**

Well orgasms aren't always necessary but they're certainly nice.  And obviously the main goal of sex.  Or at least in my mind.

nicoleg1982

Like EVER?  Or just every time they have sex?

nicoleg1982

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[QUOTE]Can you even imagine a guy telling a woman that orgasms are nice but not necessary, and just accepting the idea of sex as something where he gets all worked up and then just doesn't get off?  Ridiculous.
Posted by ReturnOfKuus[/QUOTE]

<div>Heh.  I've done that a few times.</div>

ReturnOfKuus

No, it's some woman on S&R whose husband isn't having sex with her at all, and she's begging him and telling him he doesn't even have to get her off.  Why bother begging for something that lousy?

baconsmom

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_want-punch-women-face-tell-men-its-not-important-woman-orgasm?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:685ebb1d-8149-4e82-bc24-d9ee12bc8218Post:74e156db-8bc6-4e51-bd1e-547db02c6f81">Re: I want to punch women in the face when they tell men that it's not important that a woman has an orgasm.</a>:
[QUOTE]Can you even imagine a guy telling a woman that orgasms are nice but not necessary, and just accepting the idea of sex as something where he gets all worked up and then just doesn't get off?  Ridiculous.
Posted by ReturnOfKuus[/QUOTE]
Actually, yes. <div>
</div><div>I can get into the TMI of it if it's necessary, but the short version is that sometimes, orgasms just don't happen, but sex is nice even though. I think it's weird, but there's only so many hours in the day, and he doesn't seem to have a problem with it. It may also be related to differing drives - sometimes the lower-drive person puts out to please the higher-drive one, but doesn't have the same need as the higher-drive, so orgasm isn't as important. </div><div>
</div><div>Now if it's a regular thing, that's ridiculous. </div>

6fsn

On a regular basis it is ridiculous.  Sometimes though it doesn't matter.

ReturnOfKuus

Can you even imagine a guy telling a woman that orgasms are nice but not necessary, and just accepting the idea of sex as something where he gets all worked up and then just doesn't get off?  Ridiculous.

hmonkey

who said this?

(please say mr. kuus)

MinM

If it was mr. kuus, I imagine he is walking around with a smashed apple up against his head right now.