because I do believe the people who told me once upon a time that if you have eto wonder whether or not you should go to the funeral...you should go to the funeral.
(Friend's dad died. Id met the man once but it's one of the Mr's BFFs, my pet-sitter, and an all around good guy)
So church potluck food filled, I'm home and there's no point in making the hour commute to work.