So I worked with this girl for a couple of years waitressing when I was in college. Which was about 7 years ago. Since then she has moved to Florida. I don't ever see her or talk to her. We are friends on facebook but we don't ever talk on the phone or anything. She does send me Christmas cards of her daughter every year. When she had her daughter she invited to her baby shower here in NJ but I did not attend.
Now she just finished going through a divorce and has been pretty emotional. We are both close with our old boss from that restaurant. He is invited to my wedding with his fiance. Well my other friend posts a status the other day thanking him for always being there for her bla bla bla. Then says I can't wait to see you when I come up for Carly's wedding in July. I was flabbergasted. I did not send her a save the date and we never talk so why does she just assume that she is invited? I feel like her and my old boss have made all of these plans for their daughters to meet and stuff when she comes up here. I almost feel pressured into sending her an invite now but I am pretty pissed off that she thinks she is invited to my wedding. I swear everyone thinks they are invited to our wedding. We are already at a 240 guest list. We have to guarantee 175. I am hoping for 200 but we are prepared to pay for the 240. I swear I just wish we did a destination with only immediate family and friends.