Wedding Woes

Bridal Bliss? Help me out here

Hi Ladies,
My FI and I have been overshadowed over our entire engagement by one thing or another.  A family blowout on my FI side only a month after our engagement.  My FI didn't speak to that family for 6 months. My sis annouced her divorce 2 month after my proposal. My FI is in the Army and I miss him everyday I'm not with him.  Among other issues, we have not had that romantic engagement period.  Maybe I have the lucky friends who's weddings went off with no problems.  I'm glad that we haven't been wrapped up in all the magic that a wedding can make and we have focused on the marriage.  But damn man, could I get a little magic? Hint of sparkle?

Does everyone experience their engagement to be like this?
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