Is anyone still following the doughmesstic drama?

TheDuckis

http://www.doughmesstic.net/category/betrayal/

This woman is BSC, like more BSC than EmilyKate (albeit in totally different ways). I also think her husband is giving her lip-service because he doesn't want to get his d1ck cut off.

nicoleg1982

Yes.  And somewhat agreed.

Butter Cookie

The minute she found out he was putting his piece elsewhere she needed to leave. Now she needs major major counseling.

So many red flags dot com.

hmonkey

he and the other woman had a song?  and it was "glitter in the air?"
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

yeah, i think i would leave dh for that.

jojobrn

What was the password again?

TheDuckis

Supposedly their marriage couselor, who they saw ONCE, told them they communicate so well they don't need to go back. It's mind-bottling to the point that I think the whole thing might be MUD.

TheDuckis

dobler

hmonkey

they communicate so well?  out loud?  and to each other?  okay.

*Candi*

Yes. And I hate that I keep reading because she is a tool. And that post from him? Gah. Guess what, you are THAT guy now.

Also, that kid's real name is Seven. I don't care what meaning it has for them, it's fcking dumb.

TheDuckis

Seven is worse than naming a kid after where he was conceived. Can you imagine growing up knowing you were named after the amount of time it took for you to be conceived.

That post from him was painful, and IMO, dripped of insincerity.

hmonkey

it really read like he watched david alan grier imitating maya angelou like 5000 times and then wrote it.

Heffalump

I forgot about her.  And now I kind of wish I had left it alone.  Curiosity got the better of me, but yeah, it's like a trip to crazy town.

Oh, and yes, I don't know them and could be way off base, but I do get the feeling he's telling her what she wants to hear.

nicoleg1982

I get the feeling he's saying all the right things.  I just don't think he means any of it.  For real, I think he's in love with the skanktress.

GBCK

They SO need counseling.

And I don't believe they were told they didn't.

And....he's fully sorry he got caught.

Butter Cookie

I am trying to relate this to how I would react if FI did this. I think I might initially panic and let him stay, but then sense would take hold (at this point, more like long before, when BFF or Mom or someone smacked me and said, "WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU WOMAN?") and he'd be gone.

Especially because this dude does not seem remotely sincere.

"will this ever happen again?"

"I don't think so"

WTF does that even mean? You don't think so? You have control over it. it's a simple question. Yes or no. No, being the right answer, btw. WTF is this Maybe shiitt?

*Candi*

She needs to realize that if they were never caught, he would still be cheating.

Butter Cookie

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_anyone-still-following-doughmesstic-drama?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:7efb85d0-d609-498c-bbee-bc25209c94a7Post:33353667-5d5c-421b-a1f3-a95eae9eb383">Re: Is anyone still following the doughmesstic drama?</a>:
[QUOTE]She needs to realize that if they were never caught, he would still be cheating.
Posted by *Candi*[/QUOTE]


YES. That's a huge factor. If he came to her, of his own volition, and confessed, privately, it would be different. He got caught.

Also: it's disgusting to me that she is texting and stalking the chick. WTF?

nicoleg1982

As much as anyone wants to judge, I cannot honestly say WTF would be going through my brain at that moment and the days since.

TheDuckis

Oh, she is totally feeding the drama llama by texting and fb stalking the other woman. And I it's fvcking creepy that she keeps asking for details about their sex life. Also creepy is that they're having crazy amounts of sex now.

I think deep down she knows he's still in love with the other woman, and she's staying with him to punish him.

nicoleg1982

Or fvck him back into loving her.

jojobrn

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[QUOTE]As much as anyone wants to judge, I cannot honestly say WTF would be going through my brain at that moment and the days since.
Posted by nicoleg1982[/QUOTE]

<div>Me either. I think she is trying to do what she can. But I am giving a bit of a side eye to the texting and Facebook stalking of the skank. I can't say I wouldn't do it, but I don't know if it is really helpful. And wtf at reading over the texts she sent to her with her husband. is she trying to show just how crazy the skank is and how calm and level headed she is?</div>

hmonkey

man, i hope she is using some kind of bc. 

L_Woods

All I want to contribute is that it just freaked me out (for about 2.5 seconds) to see Candi and my sister smiling back at me on that page. Right next to each other. Weird.

*Candi*

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[QUOTE]Oh, . And I it's fvcking creepy that she keeps asking for details about their sex life. Also creepy is that they're having crazy amounts of sex now. I think deep down she knows he's still in love with the other woman, and she's staying with him to punish him.
Posted by TheDuckis[/QUOTE]

This. She's just punishing herself more. I just don't understand how she can ask and hear the answers to all of thise things and still try to be happy with him.

Butter Cookie

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[QUOTE]man, i hope she is using some kind of bc. 
Posted by hmonkey[/QUOTE]

If not she can name this child Infidelity.

Heffalump

Seriously, after reading all that, I feel like a need a shower.

And yeah, it would still be going on if they hadn't been caught.

And stalking the other woman is super creepy.

The whole thing kind of makes my head spin.  I can't imagine actually living it, and I hope I never have to.

TheDuckis

They need more than birth control. Because she already knows he didn't use a condom with her. It takes 6 months for AIDS to show up positive.