First my fiance brother didn't plan his bachelor party so he basically had to plan it himself. His groomsmen asked him what he wanted and it was to go Paintball, Steakhouse than back to the House to play cards. I thought it was a wonderful idea and it made me feel comfortable. Now I just found out that one of the groomsmen talked him into going out to bars after the Steakhouse. I am very uncomfortable with that. My last fiance and I split when he went out for his bachelor party and ended up hooking up with someone else. Needless to say I wouldn't have found out except she became pregnant. He had planned his party six weeks in advance so at least we had time to call everything off. Now my current fiance when he goes out and drinks (which he doesn't really do anymore) he gets to the point where he black outs. I can't help worrying that the same thing is going to happen to me all over again. How do I get thru this?